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Hi Barb
If I get shot down in flames here - so be it.
There is no way in the world you can do more than you are doing at the moment, especially when the RA is uncontrolled. PLEASE don't let this thread get you down. You have a lot to contend with and, considering all you have to put up with, I think you are pretty amazing to do the job you do. Many would have given up by now.
I am another who can't do weights, aerobics and all the rest of it. I go and swim when I can and potter around at home. I had to give up work as I could no longer either walk up the stairs to the office or pick up the files I had to work with-let alone drive for a few years. After new knees and a hip, things did improve, but the damage done by the RA makes it impossible for me to do all the other things I enjoyed so much - hill walking, boating, rock climbing, abseiling etc.
Well done to those of you who can continue to work and exercise - that's brilliant.
Love Jeanxx
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Barbara
I work full time and have no energy/time/inclination for "proper" exercise. I work from 7.30 a.m. to 4.15 p.m. and then have to come home and be a wife and mother and do all the things that entails. I am constantly on the go. I then spend what little time I have left gathering the strength to get through the next day/week. I am constantly tired and in pain. The year before I was diagnosed with RA I spent all my time jumping up and down to exercise DVD's and managed to lose nearly two stone in weight. My GP thinks I may have overdone it and contributed to the onset of my RA from the stress of doing all my everyday things and then trying to get fit and lose weight.
Alice - most people's jobs nowadays means they opt out of the working time directive, not through choice, but through the necessity of keeping the jobs they are employed in.
I would love to lose that two stone again (it has all gone back on). I would love to go swimming but I do not even have the energy at the moment to think about leaving the house again once work is finished.
I applaude all of you who have time and energy for exercise and maybe that will be me one day.
So Barbara, you are not the only one.
Take care
Jackie xx
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Hi Alice / all, I have not read too much about resistance training / RA, would be interested to see research about this.
I think we all need to be very VERY careful about taking up anything with potential to be detrimental to health. Doing 10k run / walk - (...much more walk than run!!!) in May has definitely made me realise RA is definitely not a condition to take lightly. I did not realise it was physically possible to SLEEP so much, i have never been so tired in my life!!! Any regime taken up has to be for your own benefit and enjoyment - definitely not to keep up with anyone else or becaues thinking shuld be trying / doing more - these would definitely be the wrong reasons - we are all so very different with different needs and abilities,
I hope it may relieve some to know that i don't ever go to the gym, my fitness regime consists of work (which seems to be making me ill at the moment!!!) and housework which is a known calorie burner but which i do as little as possible ..and occassional dog walking when i feel up to it, thank goodness for Paul the daily dog walker and who is kept constantly busy making sure i dont do too much and go overdoing things, Im very lucky - my legs / hips are not too affected - but my hands / wrists not too good which is why we ditched our home gym over 10 years ago - if I had kept that up Im quite sure hands would be worse now. It was Paul's idea to get rid of it cos he knew it was making me feel down.
I really think we should all try to avoid anything which aggravates our own individual experience of RA.
Take care everyone and.... if you are reading this feeling down - DON'T - there are plenty of other ways to maintain some level of fitness - ....and dont EVER forget about happiness which is just as if not more so important - only ever do what's right for you,
I have had my days in past years when just getting out of bed has been equivalent to climbing Everest and i know many experience this daily, i spent so much of this time in floods of tears and really feel for anyone going thru this right now xx i am so grateful for my meds which seem to be working at present (although i am on top whack at present, dont want to think about needing something else :(
Take care everyone, lots love ~ liz xxxxx
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Good evening, everyone. Gladder and gladder to be in touch with you all. My thumbs hurt but I managed to hold 3kg dumb bells for one of the bosu ball squat exercises at the gym today. The rest were all lower limb exercises as my hands are still playing me up. I love exercise, it gives me a sense of control I probably don't really have!
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Jean, Jackie, Liz, thanks for replies!!! I know I am probably being a bit paranoid!!! I am not thinking of this as a competition, just that if some can do it, then so should I!!! I know thats a bit silly but I get to feel guilty. Thank you for pointing out that I probably do enough already, well, as much as I can with uncontrolled RA. Anyway, will just keep plodding onward and upward!!! Love to all x x BARBARA
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BarbieGirl wrote:Hi, I was just wondering if the members who go to the gym and do resistance training, cycling etc go to work too??? Someone please tell me that you dont do all this and work full time too to make me feel better!!! I wasn't working when I used to go to the gym. Like you, I wouldn't have had the energy to do a full day's work, cook & clean, sort out 2 children and visit a gym. As other's have said, its not a competition and everyone's level of ability is different. Some people with RA will go years before the RA really prevents them from going to work and doing other things, whilst others are less fortunate. Only you know your limitations. I always think as long as I do as much as I can to maintain my general health, i.e. eat healthily 80% of the time, maintain my ideal weight, take my drugs properly, etc., that's the best anyone can expect of me. Carol
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Hi All, I work with kids too on supply, and yes the work we do is just as good as any exercise at the gym, especially with the younger ones. Other staff used to say to me when working with a 3 year old with problems, the work I did was like a workout. I did the best I could to make his day fun and I was exhausted when I was home. I admire you being able to work long hours in lots of pain, when I was really bad I could not have even considered it. Whether or not you realise it you are doing a workout with the walking, bending, stretching, lifting, etc. you are and probably doing as much as anyone. I had a lazy day today, we just sat and watched a movie, great to do nothing. Hope everyone had a productive day, I fly home tomorrow so I will have a busy day then. Lorna x
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good heavens! The cheery good evening I wrote was sent well before the other messages of the day so it looks completely out of place. There's obviously a delay between pressing "post" and the message coming up on the site.
I am beginning to feel very out of place here. I had previously joined the one other website forum I had ever participated in for people who were trying to lose weight and who also exercised. I felt a little out of place there because I only had a few pounds to lose but seemed to be on the minority as someone with RA who was interested in fitness.
Oh, well, I'll have to come to terms with the fact that I'm an "in-betweener".
Good luck all.
Alice
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Hello All
Excellent posts here
I will just echo Liz - all so very true
Rose
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Hi Alison why do you feel out of place?? I know by reading your posts you love doing you fittness classes I love crafts etc so what is the difference hope you know what I am saying take care and keep posting even though some of us cant do too much in the gym we do like to read what others can do in the gym or not Mary L
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Hi Alice,
i think you hit the nail on the head when you mentioned earlier the feeling of losing control with this condition - this is someething I think we can all relate to - and I think is probably one of the hardest things to come to terms with RA, and other conditions
You say exercise helps you regain this feeling which is fantastic, i do worry about people overdoing things but you have the medical knowledge to help prevent this risk, please dont feel like an outsider ~ we're all in this together albeit at different stages and experiences,
I think you're right ~ there is a delay between posting messages sometimes, i have had this happen as well xx
I'm a bit of a sponge when it comes to learning and I really would be interested in finding out more about research into resistance training ~ pros and cons. I think others would find this interesting too if you have any links? In the future, I'd love to do a uni course about RA - there's so much I don't know or if I'm completely honest just don't quite understand yet,
Take care and keep posting! love from Liz xxXxx
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lizziemouse wrote:
i think you hit the nail on the head when you mentioned earlier the feeling of losing control with this condition -
Hey! I couldn't do what Alice does when I WAS well, but I do have a sense of control when I have finished a circuit. I would love to go swimming, but by the time I get to the local pool, and get changed, I have only 1 or 2 spoons left, and need those to get changed back and get home! The dog had to be rehomed a few years ago, because I had to work full time after my marriage broke, then the RA took my job away, and left me able to do little. Life changes, and I try to change with it. These Motorised machines I have found, are wonderful. After six weeks of slowly building what I can do, I actually measure 1cm taller - too little sitting and eating. My thighs have lost 2 cms each, and I feel a little more in control. I can't walk very far, but now I can actually manage the small walk from the car to the local Co-op without my stick. My next move is to time my visit, so that I can do the excersises, and then join the class, as they take to the floor for excercises (If I tried to join in the first part of the class - I'd still spent far too much time on the floor, as I can't stand very well on two legs, let alone one). The biggest boost I have got so far is in my self-esteem. Take pride in what you can do. We all know for ourselves what we can't do, or shouldn't do, and life is not a competition - unless it is against RA. My Specalist endorses what I am doing, as she keeps mentioning the Endorphines, and where to find them! (joke)
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Alice
You must keep posting it is great to have a Doctor who knows lots about RA and is very fortunate to be able to do the exercises that you do obvisouly very well.
Inspirational. Just wished I was able to do the same. Swimming is my limit.
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Hi Aice
PLEASE don't feel out of place here. We ALL have this dratted disease and each cope as best we can. We need people like you to motivate us - even if we can't do all the things others manage!
I love hearing about those who can keep reasonably fit! Just get very frustrated at times because I can't do it too! LoveJ eanxxxx
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Hi Alice
I have just caught up on this thread.
Well I work fulltime as an office manager - can be quite stressful at times.; hubby & I used to be members of a gym until earlier this year; I got frustrated when I couldn't join in the classes I used to do eg boxercise; step classes and the machines eg bikes; stepper; cross-trainer were ususally in use or broken!!
So we saved the gym membership and bought ourselves a wii instead; great fun and I can do as little or as much as I want.
We have wii sport (tennis, boxing; bowling; baseball; golf); sport resort - this is the fun one - table tennis; cycling; archery; wakeboarding; canoing etc.
Wii fit plus with the balance board - again a fun one as it has balance games; and also yoga; muscle workouts on it asd well as boxing; jogging; step etc.
& have just quite literally just received sport active - personal trainer - haven't opened this one yet.
I also go swimming / aquaexercise once a week - this is my destress time after a long week at work (Friday evening)!!
Some days I don't do any exercise on the wii; other days if I am feeling alive - a can do about 1 hour.
I am aware of how lucky I am in that I have only really lost about 5% mobility since I was diagnosed.
Caroline
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that is a really good idea Caroline Sophie has a wii think I will buy the fit thing I hate to go to the swimming pool at the moment as the legs just give way and I fall I do get quite up-set when this happens if I had the wii fit here at home I can exercise all I like and if I fall then it is not as bad thanks for this post take care Mary L
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there's a few of us with wii fits, .... I must confess havent used much lately but now feel inspired to get out again soon ~ in not too distant future, Thanks for inspiration! xxXxx
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 Good post thanks Alice when i first had RA age 17 i was able to for some time once controlled do walking,swimming i had to stop alot what id done before RA the fatigue let alone joint pain ahd e rspected and i took some time to adjust my gp guided me what was safe to do and never to exercise in flare or alot pain. i think its great your able do what your doing. IM aiming loose weight for me walking is only bit i can do for now and it does help. i also find housework is another way of exercising without knowing your doing it.lol  just wish i could actauuly do even that housework its evry evry hard going espcially when RA so much fatigue,pain plus lupus fibro my gp siad as long as im moving even if 10 to 15 min walk thats great and no way am i to go gym or lift weights we laughed i said dont worry doc i cartn even lift bowl laundry easy never mind use weights. good casue you will really do dmage to those inlfammed joints if you try do as before you had RA. .barbs hun your doing alot exercise with those litle unns all day i like see movement as exercise and work in its self is part of that espcially with children.when i was able work i also came home lot pain and had rest sleep early.so im with you at smimlar level. as your Ra gets more control you may find on day off be able mybe try a swim. but balance is key.pain swelling,fatigue eneds be listened to not ignored,i can say as i was naive at beggininng tried carry on all bits was doing found i couldnt ok i told myself i modify what im doing. so even if its a potter about 15 min walk and of course some cartn even do that. especially when ra isnt yet controlled,enjoy weekend Melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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Barbara, I read somewhere of a fitness enthusiast mother who described how she used playing with her baby for exercise! There was another one who described taking her child to nursery by car, parking the car at the nursery and going on ?to work ?back home on her bike. Where there is a will, there is a way, but do remember to check with your rheumy team about any exercise you do. If your joints are actively inflamed, they usually only recommend gentle range of movement exercises rather than lifting weights. In that case, do please let us know how you get on with those!
My hands continue to play up and I'm mighty fed up about it. I find that I go through cycles of grief with this illness. I now know what to expect and I ride the wave of frustration / alarm / sadness or whatever it is whenever it comes. It is some time since this happened though, so I am yet again adjusting to it. I must say it's the first time I offload here rather than tell my OH about it. I have to spare him on occasion, poor thing. It must be difficult to live with a "cyclical" wife.
I saw some beautiful scenery when out for my 30 minute walk this evening and I was glad I kept to my regime. My feet ached at the beginning and I thought I would not make it but they soon "warmed up" and the aches largely disappeared.
I better stop because every time I type an "a" my little finger hurts!
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Hi Everyone, I just got home from Norway, had a fab time, did lots of walking and other exercise as I have already mentioned. Did more walking today between airports. Its nice to be home and back to my fitness routine as from tomorrow. Alice you have inspired all of us, keep it up and be positive. Do take care of the hands I remember when mind did not work at all, it was a nightmare. I too have a wii fit and I love it, exercise is fun as long as one does not overdo it. Enjoy each little bit of exercise each of us can do and be pleased we can still move. It's a fun thing. Take care Lorna x
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